To riders who parking lot/kickstand dropped their new R3...

what a trooper. but some things that should help immediately.

stop looking down when braking and make sure the bars are straight! When stopping both feet down. When pulling away, paddle walk 3 or 4 steps. It's perfectly ok. She doesn't have balance and she's got one leg up on the peg. She's also trying to pull away at an angle (turn and start). First get rolling in a straight line, then add steering inputs.

We don't have engine audio but I expect she needs a clinic in clutch and throttle coordination. Add some gas, hold the RPMs up and feed in some clutch to get rolling.

several of those are on streets where she could easily have gotten nailed. Go find a nice, empty parking lot with some islands, or the cul-de-sac in your community and practice starts and stops till she does better than 9 out of 10 correctly. One lesson I do is have the coach pull backwards on the rear grab rail and the student has to fight you with throttle and clutch to keep the bike from going forward or reverse.

Can she reach the ground comfortably with both feet? Doesn't need to touch the heels but shouldn't be high on the balls of her feet. No good shots in the video to tell. I would also have her practice putting some mojo into those legs when coming to a stop. I don't think she's actually prepared to stand hard to arrest early-onset tipping motion. You can help by having her sit upright and pushing sideways on the bike and make her react and catch it. You control a bike with your inner thighs. Once she stands up and out of the saddle she has disconnected and lost control of the vehicle. Stay in the saddle and use those leg muscles.

Does she pick the bike up when it falls over or do you?

Alright, in no particular order:

She took and passed the MSF beginner course. The instructor was obviously lenient. She has over 700 miles riding time. I believe some people have no business riding a motorcycle, and my wife is one of those people, but that doesn't seem to dissuade her seeing as she wanted to own a motorcycle since she was a teenager. She seems almost not bothered every time she drops the bike which I find very odd. At this point I would say her skill level is still quite behind the level where I was right after I finished my MSF beginner course. And I'm not saying that to be funny.

She has hip and knee armor in both her textile pants and kevlar jeans.

To be fair there is somewhat a time discrepancy in those drops. Four of those happened early on after she got her bike, she learned to not use the front brake hard on slow turns or stops (it took a long time for her to learn this), then 3 months of no drops- generally she is pretty good now with start and stopping but the fifth drop happened 2 days ago after she locked her back brake (from a bad last-second decision to stop on the yellow instead of going through it) which freaked her out and there was a camber in the road which gave her bad footing when she came to the stop. At least she experienced the sensation of locking up her tire for the first time, hopefully she doesn't forget it.

I picked up her bike twice, the third time, the one where she hops off cleanly, she immediately picked up her bike by the time I put the kickstand down and dismounted to help her. And then the two other times she was riding on her own (the ones in her POV). The one thing she seemed to learn quickly is how to pick up her bike herself using her hips.

She can nearly flat foot both feet on the ground but I agree, Patton, she doesn't put enough grunt in her leg to stop her from falling but I don't know what I can do about that. That's one of her issues and even if she can flat foot securely, its what happens when the bike tilts on either side that is the problem for her.

I would like to do an advanced msf course with her but where I live they don't seem to have it unless you wrangle up 4 people on your own and then they will schedule a class, but also not sure if it will help her since she's one of those types that need A LOT of repetition to learn something.

I commend you for your patience. The ART is for people who can handle their bikes comfortably. She's not remotely ready.

this drill might work on the tipping issue. she sitting on bike facing forward, in neutral on flat ground, and mirrors angled away so she can't watch you. you push ('soft' shove) on the rear bodywork or passenger rail to tip it over. when she counters, let it start to come back, then push again harder. You can also mix in steadily increasing pressure and have her flex the muscles but throughout, insist she keep her butt in the seat. If she stands up it's gone. We're only talking say 10-15deg off-center at most.

She doesn't know that yes she can stop it before it gets out of hand and how much effort it takes. She feels it start to go and just gets out of the way, is my read.

Next have her paddle walk a few steps (let's say 6 or 7) so she's rolling at a reasonable rate and on that final step she squeezes the brakes to stop, and you bump her at the same time. Next have her paddle in an arc and do the same stop+bump. Have her compare/contrast the levels of effort to save the fall when stopping in a curve with the bars turned vs straight. The light bulb should go on.

My wife has dropped hers 3 times so far.

First time was her first time on the bike, braked too hard and lost balance when it stopped.
Second time was when she put the kickstand down, but not all the way. I was about 50 feet away in the parking lot and watched as she got two steps from the bike as it started to topple. Couldn't help but laugh.
Third was coming to an abrupt stop while down hill and in a (slow, 2mph) turn. Lesson learned and hasn't made that mistake again.

So far the only damage to the bike has been:
Minor scuffs on the bar ends (both sides)
Even smaller scuff on the exhaust (from the first drop)
Two broken clutch levers. One bent, one snapped the tip off. (second and third drops)
Bent shifter (second and third drops, still kinda bent but bent out enough to be ridable. New one has been ordered, just waiting for it to come in).

The bike drops like a trooper in my experience. I keep thinking of ordering Vagabond frame sliders, maybe soon. She hasn't dropped it in quite some time, and all of those drops were when she was just starting out.